Resources for Real Relationships
Free and paid tools built from 15 years of clinical work with real couples. Start wherever you are.
"The relationship you want is closer than you think."
Getting Closer: A Relationship Health Assessment
Both partners complete 30 questions independently across six research-backed dimensions. Receive a combined score, a radar chart showing your results side by side, clinical interpretations, and personalized next steps.
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Attachment Style Quiz
Find out your attachment style in 8 questions. Real results that explain your core fear in love, what actually helps you feel safe, and your genuine strengths as a partner.
Relationship Health Assessment
Six dimensions. Thirty questions. Both partners assessed independently with combined results, a personalized report, and clinical recommendations specific to your scores.
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Couples Attachment Toolkit
Three interactive tools designed to be used together as a couple. One device, one honest conversation at a time.
- Couples attachment pairing results
- Triggers map for each partner
- How I Show Love tool
Instant access. No app, works on any device.
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Understanding Each Other Workbook
A couples workbook built around the attachment framework. All four styles, how each pairing creates its dynamic, and repair scripts for the most common conflicts.
- All four attachment pairings explained
- Repair scripts for common conflicts
- Joint commitment exercise
- Designed to complete together
Instant PDF download. Print or fill on screen.
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Surviving the First 30 Days
Clinical support for the betrayed partner navigating the immediate aftermath of infidelity. Not a promise that everything will be okay. A guide for the hardest month of your life.
Instant PDF download. Read on any device.
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Making It Right
For the partner navigating the aftermath of an affair. Not to absolve you. Not to shame you. To give you something concrete to do when you do not know what to do.
Instant PDF download. Read on any device.
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Both Guides Bundle
For the couples who are both trying, from opposite sides of the same wound. Both guides together, one for each of you.
Janine Piernas, LMFT
Janine Piernas is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 15+ years of experience specializing in couples therapy, affair recovery, and relationship intensives. She works with couples in Temecula, CA and throughout California via telehealth. Her approach is direct, warm, and evidence-based. Every resource on this page was built from real clinical work with real couples.
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